Text by Ann Zaprazny
Photo by Andrea Tummons on Unsplash
Perfection almost killed this article. I’ve been thinking about writing about this topic for two weeks. I kept putting off getting started. I wanted it to be just right.
Because the desire to be perfect is one of the biggest challenges that adversely affect the performance of athletes and business professionals.
It is said that perfection is the enemy of done.
Perfectionism is often tied to unreasonably high personal expectations. Perfectionism prevents us from trusting in our skillset. In believing our effort or that “we” are enough.
There are many positives about being a perfectionist.
Perfectionists are very motivated, have a strong work ethic, and commit to their goals.
Who wouldn’t want anyone with those traits on their team?
Perfectionists also have some challenging traits. They often evaluate their performance or themselves as an A or F....
In this article, you will gain insight into achieving more success in sports and life.
Want more success in sports and life?
Drop your expectations!
If curiosity killed the cat, expectations stressed the athlete.
It stresses the athlete.
Goals are aspirational.
Expectations are what we internalize and believe we should achieve.
When we don’t achieve our expectations, we may be brutal on ourselves for falling short.
Athletes often have ambitious goals and unrealistic expectations.
It’s important to have goals.
It’s counterproductive to have unrealistic expectations. Unrealistic expectations often lead to disappointment, anger, and frustration derailing performance.
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As a high school athlete, you may be looking at the big picture of being a varsity player, aiming for college scholarships and future careers.
Yet, how do you ensure you're on the right path?
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Sports in High School can be amazingly fun.
They can also be challenging.
An important step in having a positive high school experience is identifying what you want from your high school sports experience.
Four years seems like a long time, but before you know it - your High School Sports Career will be over.
Sometimes when we are in the middle of a swim season, as a parent consumed in the 90 degree humidity of an all-day swim meet, we may ask ourselves, "Why is my child swimming?"
I find myself asking that question often.
Sometimes our children make it easy for us and tell us why (or why not) they are swimming.
One winter weekend, my 10 year old daughter competed in a two day swim meet. On day two, my daughter was disqualified in one event and swam slower than her seed times in two events.
As I anxiously waited outside of the locker room anticipating the worst for our one hour drive home, but my daughter emerged with a big smile.
I asked her, “Did you have fun today?”
Her answer, “Mom why wouldn’t I have fun? I spent the weekend with my friends.”
I let out a sigh of relief. We would have a good drive home.
In contrast, my son’s last season of swimming was just after he turned 14...
This is a question many parents ask themselves.
As parents, we may first ask this question when our child is younger. Your child wants to play a sport that you know and love. Should you coach them?
If you choose to coach your child there are several positive benefits.
You get to:
You might choose to not coach your child for good reasons.
Knowing yourself is an important step in the process. I played Division 1 basketball and I was a tad intense when I first started coaching. I am older and wiser now.
One thing that helped me be a better coach, was to understand the different...
Are you an athlete who wants the transition from high school to college to go well?
Your self-care and time management skills will be as critical as your athletic skills.
The demands on a college athlete are high. However, to be your best, you need to...
Congratulations! Your plan to complete college. You have achieved your childhood dream. Making the transition from high school to college can be challenging.
As an athlete, you might have wondered, what are the things I should do to prepare myself before going to college?
If a typical student takes five courses, I recommend taking four classes. Why? Your first semester can set the tone for your success in college. I did not do this and regret it.
I was a scholar-athlete at my high school. My major was Chemical Engineering with a biology minor. In addition, I played basketball and worked 8 hrs a week on campus.
My first semester GPA was terrible, and my scholarship was in jeopardy. I struggled academically because I was underprepared....
The Coronavirus has impacted life in a way most of us have never experienced before. Schools are closed, businesses are closed in attempt to "flatten the curve" and slow the spread of the virus.
The mood and morale of many are down. If you have middle school or high school aged children you know kids are out of sync. If you have college age children the challenge is real. One moment you are independent, living with your friends and now you are back home doing classes on line.
Athletes and seniors in high school and college are feeling a great sense of loss.
Many working adults are experiencing high levels of stress and anxiety around their ability to pay their bills, earning and income. etc.
These are challenging times. But we are not at war. We do not have a food shortage. I am confident we will help our neighbors through difficult times.
It's important that we acknowledge how we are feeling and that we are...
Guest Author, Juah Toe, Tri -Captain West Chester Women's Rugby Team
In the past three years, I’ve learned how to play rugby, played in my first game, became a starter, captain, All-American, and eventually a National Champion.
Who would’ve thought that in three and a half years, I’d be where I am today? Definitely not 18 year old Juah!
To say you are a National Champion is the most incredible feeling in the world.
People congratulating you everywhere you go, even if they know nothing about rugby! After years of dedication to the sport, all the pieces fell into place.
This was the season of making history.
At the beginning of the season, the coaches from all the teams ranked us 5th out of seven teams in the conference. This made us angry from the start.
We set goals and wanted to prove we are better than all those teams who thought less of us.
And we did.
We came out on top and made school history every time we stepped onto the field.
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